As a little break in my story I asked my Dad and Noah if I could share some of the questions that my Daddy asked Noah and His answers.  I really enjoyed reading them and hope you do too! 

What is the purpose of marriage?

I believe God has ordained marriage in order to shape us more into the likeness of Himself (Gen1:26-27). Marriage is a lifelong covenant. (1 Cor. 7:3)  The husband’s body is not his own, and the wife’s body is not her own. They both belong to each other. (1 Cor. 7:4 and Mark 10:7-8) and are accountable as such. Since we as humans are under the curse, we will struggle with sin and trials of this life, (Our own and that of our spouse).

 “Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.  And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.”   Romans 5:3-5

Through this, God is shaping us more into his likeness.

 God also designed marriage for the procreation of children (Gen. 1:28). The Family is where we train the next generation to seek and follow earnestly after Christ. As parents, we are then responsible to train our children to submit their lives to Christ. (Prov. 22:6)

-What is the role of a husband?
A husband must be the head of the wife, “as Christ is the head of the church”, (Eph. 5:23). Being the head of the wife involves several things. First, He must lead his wife and children. He must be the spiritual leader, both in word and example. He needs to set high Biblical standards and train his children in the fear of the Lord.. He also needs to be the protector and provider. It is the husband’s job to go out and work to support his wife and children. The wife should not have the responsibility of providing for the family. Ultimately, the husband is responsible before God for his family.

-What is the role of a wife?
Titus 2:4-5 sums up the purpose of a wife quite well I think.  A wife should love, support, and encourage her husband. She should submit to her husband’s authority. By “submit” I do not mean bow to every whim and demand of her husband. Rather, she should help give insight, respect, and support his decisions. A wife is meant to be her husband’s helpmate. Not his slave.
A wife also has the responsibility of a mother, (If God chooses to bless her with children). She has the responsibility to care and nurture them, and instruct them in God’s Word, (Prov. 22:6) Training the children is also part of the role of a husband, as a father.
A wife also holds the responsibility of keeping the home. I don’t think she should be confined to the house at all times, but I do think it is her duty to keep the house in order.

-What are my view on the education of children and higher education?

  Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it. Prov. 22:6

  I am very much in favor of home schooling. America’s educational system is inadequate and far too secularized. I want to train my children in the fear of the Lord. I think that most schools do exactly the opposite.

I think God gives every person different strengths and weaknesses, and education should encourage growth in both the strengths and weaknesses.  If a child has a certain gift, I think his/her education should be catered to strengthen specifically that gift. In doing so, that child will grow to be passionate about their God-given gift; and use that gift in a career that they will be passionate about.

 I believe it is important to always be learning, and will encourage my children to pursue higher education after high school.  I’m not going to force them to go to college if they don’t want to. When they are old enough to go to college, I will expect them to be able to make sound decisions concerning their profession and education.  

-What do I think about a wife working outside of the home?

  While there are no children, I would have no problem with my wife working outside the home. I don’t think it is right for her to have to stay at home alone all day. I don’t think she should have to provide for the family though. That will be my responsibility as a husband and a father. That being said, I think my wife should not work outside the home when we have children. 

-What are some essential Character traits I am looking for in wife?

"encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:4-5

  I’m looking for a wife that is faithful. No matter what the situation I want my wife to stay by my side. In marriage, there is no backing out.

I’m looking for a loving wife. I want a wife that is willing to love me for who I am. Not for what I can give.

I’m looking for a wife that is forgiving and patient. I know that as a husband and a father, I am going to make mistakes. I want my wife to be able to forgive me, and be patient and help me work through those mistakes.

Most of all, I’m looking for a wife with a passionate heart for God.

-What essential character traits do I have as a prospective husband?

  I’m not afraid to work hard to make something work.  I’m compassionate. I love to help those that are unable to help themselves. I’m a peace keeper. I will go out of my way to keep the peace if at all possible.  In all I do, I want Christ to be at the center of it. I want to stay in the center of His will.

-What weaknesses do I see in myself?

  I am a terribly impulsive spender. Saving money does not come easy. With God’s help, I believe I’m becoming a better steward of what he has given me.

I find it very easy to become sidetracked from the more important things in my life.  I need to be continually seeking after God and earnestly asking for his help and strength to stay focused on Him.

-What are some goals I have set for myself?

   It is my goal in life to never become “spiritually stagnant”. I want my life to be an example and an encouragement to everyone I come in contact with. Ultimately, I want to grow closer and more like Christ every day that I live. I want to “glorify God, and enjoy Him forever”.

Financially, I want to stay completely out of unnecessary debt if at all possible.  If that means going without some of the nicer comforts of life, so be it. I want to be a good steward of the gifts God gives me.

As far as a career goes, I am currently working as a drywall finisher. This spring I will have the funds to start working on getting my pilot’s license. My goal is to fly for a commercial airline. I am trusting God to open all the doors for that to happen.

What is the purpose of money?
  The purpose of money is to bring glory to God (Prov. 3:9). The way in which it is earned, spent, and saved should be to the glory of God.

What Do I think of Credit and Loans?
  Credit and loans have almost become a necessity in today's society. The use of money that one has not yet earned is encouraged everywhere, and it is disgusting. I have no problem with credit, as long as I can pay that credit off immediately. Spending money that I do not have is unwise and dangerous. Loans are sometimes a necessity and a risk a person needs to make. Ideally, a loan should be used for an investment like purchasing a home or real estate. like credit, loans should be paid off as soon as possible.

How do I plan to provide for a wife?
  I will do whatever it takes to provide. If I have to work multiple jobs to pay for insurance and a house payment, I will. Whatever situation me and my wife find ourselves in, I know that God will provide (Phil. 4:19).

How will I deal with Theological differences with my wife?
  I don't know if it is possible to enter into a relationship with someone, and agree on every point of theology. If there is a disagreement, I will go to God's word with my wife, and search for what God has to say about the matter. I will have to trust that He will open our eyes to the truth.

How would my parents react to theological differences?
  It is my parent's hope and prayer that I find a spouse that can agree with me on major theological issues. If I can't agree with a perspective spouse on issues like salvation, they would strongly question whether the person is right for me. I agree with them.

What are some ministries and authors that my family and I enjoy?

John Piper’s Desiring God Ministries and Focus on the Family (currently my family is going through Dr. Del Tackett’s “Truth Project” in our family devotions) are some of our favorite ministries. There are numerous others. My family loves to read. So our list of favorite authors is boundless from A.W. Tozer, Brother Lawrence, and C.S Lewis; to Dorothy Sayers, Elizabeth Peters, and Louis L’amour. We read it all.

How would I choose a church for my wife and I?

  I will look for a church that will provide good mentorship for my wife and I. I would like to find a church that is active in missions as well as mentoring believers (new and old), in their walk with Christ, and instructing them so they can be effective when reaching out to the lost.

What do I consider some of my spiritual gifts?

  Mercy, Exhortation/encouraging, and service.

How do I demonstrate spiritual leadership in the home, church, and work?

  I want to lead by example. I Timothy 3:1-13 and Titus 1:5-11 have set some very good guidelines for leadership, and I wish to follow them very closely. My submission to Christ should be the driving force behind my leadership.

What are some of my political views?

  Conservative,   Less Federal Government

What topics are important to me?

  Sanctity of human life, the battle against same sex marriage, parental rights

Have I voted before?

  Yes. I’ve been voting since I turned 18. It is my duty as an American citizen.

Describe your relationship with your parents. Are there any issues?

  I love and respect my parents very much. I value our relationship and realize that I am very blessed to have a father and mother that care so much about me. I thank God daily for their carefulness to raise me in the fear of the Lord. I get along very well with my parents. There are no issues.

When will I be ready for Marriage?

  I don’t think I can give a date, and say “I’ll be ready to marry on this day”. I feel that I am ready to lead a family now.  I do want to get a good financial base before I marry though. I don’t think it is wise to enter into a marriage relationship without a way to provide for insurance or a house payment.  At the same time, I don’t want to put off getting married till I’m 30 because I’m trying to get the perfect job. So financially, I think I will be ready to marry at this time next year.  I’ve been told that nobody can be completely ready for marriage. It is a growing process that I won’t understand until I’ve done it myself.  I must say I agree.